What Is Sexual Attunement? Most men were never taught how to actually be present with a woman during sex. They were taught moves. Techniques. Sequences. The implicit curriculum of pornography, locker rooms, and cultural silence added up
Three fun interviews on The Shameless Sex podcast. Amy and April are smart, funny, and clearly really good at hosting a show! Latest Interview:Check their show description: Can penis owners really have multiple orgasms in one sexual
Where my fellow Burners at?!? After a lengthy hiatus, I’m heading back to Burning Man! I’ll be leading two Hands-On/Clothes-Off workshops (Meaning bring a partner and be prepared to get undressed), and will also be speaking on
Some exciting news – I was recently interviewed for an article on Fast Company about how emotional intelligence can diminish ‘toxic masculinity’ at work. As someone who’s all about empowering men to embrace growth and evolve, it
To celebrate the release of Season 6 of Black Mirror on Netflix, I worked with ChatGPT to ‘create a Black Mirror episode based on my book The Evolved Masculine. But here’s the twist – the story diverges
Out of all the chapters in “The Evolved Masculine”, one subject consistently sparks the most intrigue and curiosity – Sexual Attunement. It’s clear that this topic, the fine art of tuning in and responding to a partner’s
Listen to “Inner Journey with Greg Friedman welcomes Destin Gerek” on Spreaker. Last week, I had a bit of a wild interview experience being a guest on the ‘Inner Journey with Greg Friedman’ podcast, which aired live
As men, we’ve long been associated with strength. Often, the focus has been on physical prowess. While our physical strength can be incredibly valuable, it’s time to expand our notion of masculine strength through a more conscious
I recently had the pleasure of joining the Sluts and Scholars podcast to discuss my book, The Evolved Masculine, and explore a range of topics related to masculine and feminine energies, spiritual fuck boys, men’s sensitivity and
Introduction: As men, our journey to becoming better lovers involves more than simply mastering techniques or learning new moves. To truly connect with our partners and create deeply satisfying sexual experiences, we must cultivate a skill known
Listen to my interview on Cheating: When Love Lies hosted by Jillian Hamilton Men cheat for a variety of reasons, and it is important to note that not all men cheat, nor do these reasons apply to
I’ve started playing around with ChatGPT. Last night, I explored using it as form of interactive journal. I hope to continue to explore conversing with it in this way. If you found this interesting or even helpful
You may be a thoughtful, respectful, and kind man who naturally forms deep emotional connections with women. Yet, you might still yearn for more frequent sexual connections and wonder why women seem to be drawn to the
Have you ever found yourself in the midst of an intensely passionate encounter, with the energy between you and your partner soaring to electrifying heights? You’ve teased and tantalized each other, and now, you’re completely immersed in
What does it mean to be an Evolved Masculine man? Is it a select group of men who’ve transcended common human experiences, ready to bestow their wisdom upon us all? Have I, Destin Gerek, the founder of
Destin is a Certified Sexologist through The American Board of Sexology. He is the founder & CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men & author of the best-selling book The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves.
What Is Sexual Attunement? Most men were never taught how
Three fun interviews on The Shameless Sex podcast. Amy and
Where my fellow Burners at?!? After a lengthy hiatus, I’m
Some exciting news – I was recently interviewed for an
To celebrate the release of Season 6 of Black Mirror
Out of all the chapters in “The Evolved Masculine”, one
