Sexual Self-Mastery
Master Your Sexual Energy.
You’ve done the work. You’ve developed yourself in ways most men never will. And yet — your sexuality remains the one dimension you’ve never fully explored, never fully integrated, never brought to the same level of mastery you’ve applied everywhere else.
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A 13 Week Guided Training For Men
Ready To Master The Last Frontier
SINGLE MEN
IS YOUR SEXUALITY KEEPING PACE
WITH THE REST OF YOUR LIFE?
- You've developed yourself in almost every area... and sexuality remains untouched
- You sense there's a depth of experience available that you've never actually reached
- You carry private insecurities you've never said out loud to anyone
- Something about how you show up sexually doesn't yet match the man you know yourself to be
- You know that what you've experienced so far is not the ceiling
PARTNERED MEN
IS YOUR SEX LIFE AS CONSCIOUS AND CONNECTED AS THE REST OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
- Are you convinced you'll never quite measure up to her expectations?
- You're doing the inner work in your relationship... but your sexuality lags behind
- PE, erection challenges, or porn dependency are quietly affecting your confidence
- You sense your partner wants more from you in this area — even if neither of you says it directly
- Sex has become functional rather than extraordinary
Contrary To Popular Belief...
- Lasting As Long As You Want
- Experiencing Full Body Orgasms
- Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms
- Male Multiple Orgasms
...Are Skills You Can Learn
With over 20 years’ experience, I helped thousands of men master their sexuality, deepen theirpleasure, embody their full masculine potential, and expand their relationships to new heights.
This is the same body of work I’ve refined over twenty years of private coaching, intensive study, and direct experience with thousands of men. Distilled into a structured thirteen-week program you can move through at your own pace, with the depth and specificity that most programs in this space never come close to.
Destin Gerek is an internationally renowned sexologist and author of The Evolved Masculine. He created the Sexual Self-Mastery program after helping thousands of men master their sexuality over 25+ years.
Destin is driven by his mission to empower men everywhere to discover their full erotic potential and live more fulfilling, passionate lives.
Total Value $1997
Virtual Training $997
Total Value $4997
Virtual Training $997
Enroll today and receive the most comprehensive virtual training for men’s sexual mastery, with proven success.
NO RISK: You’re covered by my 30-day refund guarantee.
What 2000+ SEXUAL SELF - MASTERY
Students (& Their Partners) Say:
What You'll Discover:
- Exercises to gain lasting control - end premature ejaculation and last as long as you choose
- Tantric practices to channel sexual energy and experience full-body ecstatic states
- Tools to eliminate shame, clear trauma, and shift limiting beliefs that sabotage intimacy
- Mindset shifts to embrace growth, patience and self-compassion on the lifelong path
- Techniques like blocking, breathwork and PC muscle strengthening for physical mastery
- Keys to extraordinary presence, attunement and connection with your lover
- Immersive practices Embodiment of your empowered masculine essence
- A clear path through the Four Gates of Sexual Self-Mastery: ejaculatory choice, full body orgasms, non-ejaculatory orgasms, and male multiple orgasms. Most men don't believe these are possible for them until they experience them
Here's What People Are Saying:
A 13 WEEK MEN'S COURSE TO MASSIVELY UPGRADE YOUR SEXUALITY
Week 1: Establishing Your Practice
First, you will examine your current masturbation patterns in detail, and create intentional time each week to practice them in what we call “erotic self-explorations.” The goal of this week is not to change your practice, but to establish a new pattern, and to bring consciousness to how you have trained your body to respond to stimulation.
Week 2: Waking Up The Body
You will learn and practice techniques for distributing your awareness throughout your body so that it’s not all focused in your pelvis during your erotic self-explorations, allowing for deeper relaxation and engagement with the other practices to come.
Week 3: Breath & Relaxation
Have you given much thought to your relationship with your breath? It’s so much more than an autonomic function, and this week we look at the relationship between your breath and your arousal. Get ready for a complete reframe.
Week 4: Master Your Presence
“Presence” is the word we use for a state and practice of total focus. It is a precursor to and requirement for what we call “embodiment,” or awareness in each moment of the body. Establishing greater presence is absolutely paramount for sexual self-mastery, and that is exactly what you will develop.
Week 5: Circulating Sound
During sex, most men are silent, or perhaps let out an occasional grunt.
Sound is one of the most powerful and least understood tools for moving sexual energy through the body. This week you’ll discover how to use vocalization to dramatically deepen your pleasure, extend your arousal, and transform the experience for both you and your partner.
Week 6: Intro To Visualization & Challenge
Energy, or “subtle energy,” is a phenomenon outlined in many Eastern philosophies such as Tantra and Taoism, and visualization is a tool you will begin to use to work with it. The benefits of doing so are great in the bedroom, though it can be challenging to master. Speaking of challenges, we’ll have one for you this week that will prep you to break the ‘compulsion to ejaculate’ for good. Only then can you gain true choice…
Week 7: Movement - Motion Of The Ocean
The next tool we have for moving sexual energy is Movement. Lateral movement, circular movement, linear movement, movement of body parts you might otherwise neglect. These practices will get you even more in your body to create dynamic sexual experiences.
Week 8: No Porn / Ejaculation Challenge
Now for the fun stuff. You may have heard of #nofap. This is not that. Rather than avoiding masturbation altogether, you will now be engaging with it, breaking the compulsion to ejaculate, so that you gain true choice over when or if you ejaculate and build your turn-on organically without external stimuli. Sound hard? You probably will be ;
Week 9: Deeper Into Visualization
Deepening our dive into the mystic arts, this week will have you beginning to create a rhythm or flow within your body using the visualization of energy, and bringing it to your practice.
Week 10: Receiving & Surrender
Although the masculine (and sometimes men) is often thought of as linear and goal-oriented, this week will have you cultivating your relationship to surrender and receiving which, ironically, is an important component of masculine power and unlocking your erotic potential.
Week 11: Integration & Partner Practices
By now your relationship to your own sexuality has fundamentally shifted. This week you bring that into your intimate relationships: learning how to guide a partner into this work, deepen presence and connection together, and create shared experiences neither of you has had before.
Week 12: Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms and Male Multiple Orgasms
By this point, you will have all the tools that you need to experience Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms and Male Multiple Orgasms. This is the week you’ll focus on experiencing them for yourself!
Week 13: Completing Your Journey
By this time your entire relationship with your sexuality will have shifted. We will explore how to keep this going, the responsibility you have with the new power you’ve developed, and celebrate how far you’ve come.
Here is what is included with your enrollment:
- The complete 13-week video training curriculum - Dive into the comprehensive video modules guiding you through Sexual Self-Mastery from start to finish.
- Sexual nervous system rewiring practices - Follow along with the proven weekly exercises designed to fundamentally reprogram your sexual conditioning.
- Explicit demonstration videos - Watch the practices in action with real partners, so you understand not just the theory but what embodied mastery actually looks like.
- Weekly journal prompts and a sexual self-assessment - Structured reflection tools that track your progress and keep you honest about where you are in the work.
ENROLL NOW AND RECEIVE THESE BONUSES:
BONUS 1
Power & Presence Audio Primer
(5-min guided practice)
Drop in, ground yourself, and step into the centered presence that commands respect. This simple audio tool helps you reset your energy anytime, anywhere.
BONUS 2
PDF copy of the bestselling book The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs & the One She Craves
Immerse yourself in the transformative philosophies and practices that have helped thousands of men master their purpose, passion and intimate relationships.
BONUS 3
Your SSM AI Companion
Real-time support. Anytime you need it.
Most men do this kind of work completely alone. You don’t have to.
Every SSM student now has access to a dedicated AI companion trained in the full curriculum and in my work. Available throughout your entire thirteen weeks: to troubleshoot practices, work through what’s surfacing emotionally, give real-time guidance mid-practice, and keep you accountable when resistance hits.
It knows this program in depth. It speaks directly. It’s there at eleven at night when you need it.
Transform your sex life and relationships with the 13-week Sexual Self-Mastery program.
Total Value $1997
$997
Total Value $4997
$997
Your satisfaction is 100% guaranteed. We proudly stand behind this program. If you decide within 30 days of purchase that the training isn’t right for you, simply let us know and we’ll issue a full refund.
Upon enrollment, you’ll gain instant access to the first module. The remaining modules will be released weekly over the thirteen weeks of the program, so you can learn and implement each lesson without getting overwhelmed.
After completing the full 13 weeks, you’ll have LIFETIME access to the full video curriculum and training materials, including any future updates we add.
What 2000+ SEXUAL SELF - MASTERY
Students (& Their Partners) Say
About Destin Gerek
I was sixteen the first time I had sex. I remember watching my partner enter a state of full-body ecstasy. Her eyes rolling back, wave after wave of pleasure moving through her, and yet… I felt completely detached from what she was experiencing. I had no idea what she was feeling. And I wanted to.
That moment sent me on a twenty-five-year investigation into the true nature of male sexuality.
What I found is that most of what men are taught about sex is wrong. The conquest model, the performance pressure, the conditioning to numb down and push through. All of it keeps men locked out of their own bodies and out of real connection. The result is men who feel like less than they are, carrying shame they never asked for, reaching for pleasure they can’t quite touch.
I’ve spent my career learning and teaching the opposite path. I trained as a Certified Sexological Bodyworker. I went deep into tantra, Taoist practices, somatic work, and neuro-linguistic programming, all to understand what actually changes a man’s sexual experience at the level of his nervous system. I distilled what worked, stripped away what didn’t, and built the Sexual Self-Mastery training from what I discovered in my own body and witnessed in thousands of men I’ve worked with around the world.
Sexual self-mastery is the foundation of life mastery. When a man learns to be in his body: to feel deeply, to choose consciously, to show up from fullness rather than need, everything changes. How he carries himself. How he relates to women. How much of life he actually gets to experience.
That is what this training is built to give you.