Become The Best Lover She’s Ever Had
Unlock Your Full Sexual Potential
SEXUAL SELF MASTERY
Do you feel like you’re living up to your full potential as a lover?
Or do frustration, anxiety and dissatisfaction plague your sex life?
You deserve extraordinary passion, pleasure, and fulfillment – it’s time to claim it.
NO RISK: You’re covered by my 30-day refund guarantee.
A 13 Week Guided Training For Men
To Go
From Frustration To Fulfilment
SINGLE MEN
ARE YOU STRUGGLING TO ATTRACT PARTNERS?
- Are your sexual experiences unfulfilling?
- Do you lack confidence in the bedroom?
- Have you ever gotten the sense that your partners were dissatisfied?
- Do you find it tough to navigate how you express your masculinity in today’s world?
- Have you lost partners due to your performance in bed?
PARTNERED MEN
ARE SEXUAL ISSUES CAUSING TENSION IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
- Are you convinced you'll never quite measure up to her expectations?
- Are you de-stressing with pornography?
- Are sexual issues causing you and your partner to drift apart?
- Is erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation affecting you?
- Does rejection when initiating sex leave you feeling anger or shame?
Contrary To Popular Belief...
- Lasting As Long As You Want
- Experiencing Full Body Orgasms
- Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms
- Male Multiple Orgasms
...Are Skills You Can Learn
With over 20 years’ experience, I helped thousands of men master their sexuality, deepen theirpleasure, embody their full masculine potential, and expand their relationships to new heights.
These teachings have been limited to those who can participate in private coaching and in-personworkshops – but the movement is growing and I needed to create a program to make these teachingsmore accessible to more men.
Total Value $1997
Virtual Training $997
Total Value $4997
Virtual Training $997
Enroll today and receive the most comprehensive virtual training for men’s sexual mastery, with proven success.
NO RISK: You’re covered by my 30-day refund guarantee.
What 2000+ SEXUAL SELF - MASTERY
Students (& Their Partners) Say:
What You'll Discover:
- Exercises to gain lasting control - end premature ejaculation and last as long as you choose
- Tantric practices to channel sexual energy and experience full-body ecstatic states
- Tools to eliminate shame, clear trauma, and shift limiting beliefs that sabotage intimacy
- Mindset shifts to embrace growth, patience and self-compassion on the lifelong path
- Techniques like blocking, breathwork and PC muscle strengthening for physical mastery
- Keys to extraordinary presence, attunement and connection with your lover
- Immersive practices Embodiment of your empowered masculine essence
- Inspiring vision of the endless sexual possibilities available to you through mastery
Here's What People Are Saying:
A 13 WEEK MEN'S COURSE TO MASSIVELY UPGRADE YOUR SEXUALITY
Week 1: Establishing Your Practice
First, you will examine your current masturbation patterns in detail, and create intentional time each week to practice them in what we call “erotic self-explorations.” The goal of this week is not to change your practice, but to establish a new pattern, and to bring consciousness to how you have trained your body to respond to stimulation.
Week 2: Waking Up The Body
You will learn and practice techniques for distributing your awareness throughout your body so that it’s not all focused in your pelvis during your erotic self-explorations, allowing for deeper relaxation and engagement with the other practices to come.
Week 3: Breath & Relaxation
Have you given much thought to your relationship with your breath? It’s so much more than an autonomic function, and this week we look at the relationship between your breath and your arousal. Get ready for a complete reframe.
Week 4: Master Your Presence
“Presence” is the word we use for a state and practice of total focus. It is a precursor to and requirement for what we call “embodiment,” or awareness in each moment of the body. Establishing greater presence is absolutely paramount for sexual self-mastery, and that is exactly what you will develop.
Week 5: Circulating Sound
During sex, most men are silent, or perhaps let out an occasional grunt.
Unfortunately, since sound is one of the most powerful tools we have for circulating sexual energy, that leaves most men in the stands when it comes to sex. Fortunately, you won’t be one of those men by the time this week is done.
Week 6: Intro To Visualization & Challenge
Energy, or “subtle energy,” is a phenomenon outlined in many Eastern philosophies such as Tantra and Taoism, and visualization is a tool you will begin to use to work with it. The benefits of doing so are great in the bedroom, though it can be challenging to master. Speaking of challenges, we’ll have one for you this week that will prep you to break the ‘compulsion to ejaculate’ for good. Only then can you gain true choice…
Week 7: Movement - Motion Of The Ocean
The next tool we have for moving sexual energy is Movement. Lateral movement, circular movement, linear movement, movement of body parts you might otherwise neglect. These practices will get you even more in your body to create dynamic sexual experiences.
Week 8: No Porn / Ejaculation Challenge
Now for the fun stuff. You may have heard of #nofap. This is not that. Rather than avoiding mssturbation altogether, you will now be engaging with it, breaking the compulsion to ejaculate, so that you gain true choice over when or if you ejaculate and build your turn-on organically without external stimuli. Sound hard? You probably will be 😉
Week 9: Deeper Into Visualization
Deepening our dive into the mystic arts, this week will have you beginning to create a rhythm or flow within your body using the visualization of energy, and bringing it to your practice.
Week 10: Receiving & Surrender
Although the masculine (and sometimes men) is often thought of as linear and goal-oriented, this week will have you cultivating your relationship to surrender and receiving which, ironically, is an important component of masculine power and unlocking your erotic potential.
Week 11: Integration & Partner Practices
Got a special someone? Or a special prospect? Bringing these tools and your new level of mastery to them can help you BOTH reach new heights of pleasure.
Week 12: Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms and Male Multiple Orgasms
By this point, you will have all the tools that you need to experience Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms and Male Multiple Orgasms. This is the week you’ll focus on experiencing them for yourself!
Week 13: Completing Your Journey
By this time your entire relationship with your sexuality will have shifted. We will explore how to keep this going, the responsibility you have with the new power you’ve developed, and celebrate how far you’ve come.
Here is what is included with your enrollment:
- The complete 13-week video training curriculum - Dive into the comprehensive video modules guiding you through Sexual Self-Mastery from start to finish.
- Sexual nervous system rewiring practices - Follow along with the proven weekly exercises designed to fundamentally reprogram your sexual conditioning.
- Rich multimedia lessons - Enjoy visually engaging and immersive learning materials to accelerate your growth.
- Dynamic learning tools - Take your growth to the next level with thought-provoking journals, worksheets, assessments and more.
ENROLL NOW AND RECEIVE THESE BONUSES:
BONUS 1
Power & Presence Audio Primer
(5-min guided practice)
Drop in, ground yourself, and step into the centered presence that commands respect. This simple audio tool helps you reset your energy anytime, anywhere.
BONUS 2
Erotic Super Powers 28-Day video training ($297 value)
Gain skills to deeply read your lover’s body like an erotic mind-reader. Through subtle cues, learn to expertly anticipate her desires and unlock new dimensions of mutual ecstasy.
BONUS 3
PDF copy of the bestselling book The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs & the One She Craves
Immerse yourself in the transformative philosophies and practices that have helped thousands of men master their purpose, passion and intimate relationships.
A Brotherhood Of Men All Committed To Their Evolutionary Growth
Transform your sex life and relationships with the 13-week Sexual Self-Mastery program.
Total Value $1997
$997
Total Value $4997
$997
Your satisfaction is 100% guaranteed. We proudly stand behind this program. If you decide within 30 days of purchase that the training isn’t right for you, simply let us know and we’ll issue a full refund.
Upon enrollment, you’ll gain instant access to the first module. The remaining 12 modules will be released weekly over the course of the program, so you can learn and implement each lesson without getting overwhelmed.
After completing the full 13 weeks, you’ll have LIFETIME access to the full video curriculum and training materials, including any future updates we add.
What 2000+ SEXUAL SELF - MASTERY
Students (& Their Partners) Say
About Destin Gerek
I was sixteen the first time I had sex. I remember watching my partner enter a state of full-body ecstasy. Her eyes rolling back, wave after wave of pleasure moving through her, and yet… I felt completely detached from what she was experiencing. I had no idea what she was feeling. And I wanted to.
That moment sent me on a twenty-five-year investigation into the true nature of male sexuality.
What I found is that most of what men are taught about sex is wrong. The conquest model, the performance pressure, the conditioning to numb down and push through. All of it keeps men locked out of their own bodies and out of real connection. The result is men who feel like less than they are, carrying shame they never asked for, reaching for pleasure they can’t quite touch.
I’ve spent my career learning and teaching the opposite path. I trained as a Certified Sexological Bodyworker. I went deep into tantra, Taoist practices, somatic work, and neuro-linguistic programming, all to understand what actually changes a man’s sexual experience at the level of his nervous system. I distilled what worked, stripped away what didn’t, and built the Sexual Self-Mastery training from what I discovered in my own body and witnessed in thousands of men I’ve worked with around the world.
Sexual self-mastery is the foundation of life mastery. When a man learns to be in his body: to feel deeply, to choose consciously, to show up from fullness rather than need, everything changes. How he carries himself. How he relates to women. How much of life he actually gets to experience.
That is what this training is built to give you.