Testimonials

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“I was uncertain what to expect or what I would feel when I first signed up to do coaching with you. It has proven to be an amazing experience and I’m only beginning to realize how powerful an effect it will have on my life. It’s been two months since we started, I already feel more grounded in my sexual exploration. It feels like my body and mind are on a journey together to discover my sexuality and desires, rather than feeling my sexuality as totally dissociated from the rest of who I am. I am more at peace with my body, more comfortable looking at myself, more curious about moving and touching my body, expressing myself in a more physical way, being aware of my body rather than living life as a spirit or head dragging along a body.”
-D.T.

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I wanted to express deep gratitude for the coach that you have been. I see now that I’ve been waiting to really invest in a coach until I found one that I feel could really handle what I would be bringing them. I knew that the coach would have to be made of some really strong stuff – coming out of a background of extreme, abundant, and unique trauma of a being tortured by a criminally insane parent -I knew a lot of intense stuff would come up that a coach would have to be really solid to know how to handle it. I have gone thru so many therapists because so many people just didn’t have the skills to really grasp the level of trauma (I know have a great therapist in addition to working with you) So, I want to express my deep gratitude to you for being the angel who didn’t turn away from all the stuff that working with me has come with – I literally feel like I am coming back to life again – like I’ve landed on the shore again after feeling like I was trying to keep afloat in a violent sea – You have given me gifts that are priceless and I am deeply touched and bow a huge Namaste to you.

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Destin, I owe you a tremendous debt of gratitude for helping to set me on this path. The people in my life whose lives have changed, often painfully, owe you thanks as well, though you may never receive that thanks from them. Their lives have been put into alignment. Cheri is happier than ever with her new life, it’s where she’s meant to be. My married friend is finally able to let go of her decades-long fantasy of me, face her marriage honestly, and build the foundation of a truly fulfilling life. Many others, old and new connections, changing as I follow my heart and move further along my path.

And the real magic is yet to come.

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There are many coaching/mentoring approaches which provide clients with tools and concepts to address the many spokes that comprise the wheel of Life – the problem with a great number of these teaching models is that the clients become trapped in the ideas themselves, and adapt their dreams to the framework, rather than adapting the methodologies to their own inner voice. Destin Gerek approaches his work from the opposite direction – his carefully-structured questions and guidance all revolve around freeing the individual from preconceived notions of the ‘right’ way to break through self-limiting beliefs and energetic blockages. In this way, I found myself able to avoid becoming ‘mastered’ by the process, and instead, was given the confidence and guidance to take control of my own self-actualization and soul values identification journey. When I had done so, Destin was there to provide insight into how to continuously reinforce these “inner knowings” and offer frameworks to build upon my personal revelations. In addition, Destin’s background in such fields as tantric intimacy and eastern bodywork disciplines means that his clients receive a very powerful knowledge base for accessing the manifestational power of the present moment through becoming fully-aware of the deep wisdom that resides in their bodies. His compassion and commitment to service represents the kind of integrity that is required from those who are offering the depth of transformational change that his services can provide to individuals from every walk of life.
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Thank you! You are a magnificent man! Working with you has been incredibly FUCKING motivating. I really appreciate all that you do. (And I don’t mean just for me)

This work is really helping me re-ignite my own creative cauldron. Places long stuck are FINALLY moving!

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“I am extremely fortunate and grateful to have been able to experience Destin Gerek’s coaching work, and it has been life-changing. Thanks to his coaching, I have experienced changes in my sexuality, my mindset and my way of being that have been amazing. I’m experiencing a far deeper level of presence, peacefulness and confidence, in my sexual relationship and in my way of living, than I ever knew possible. Moreover, Destin’s coaching has given me the tools to continue to transform my life in the ways I want going forward, now I’m truly guiding my life.

Destin’s approach is about making changes from the inside-out, based on what works best for the individual client. His work is very personalized and non-judgmental. He acts as a guide, offering me tools and encouraging me along my individual path, instead of some rigid, cookie-cutter program. He’s given me the tools to change how I’m being inside, and that has led to tremendous changes in my life “just happening.” Change feels very natural and fun.

Pulling from a wide array of disciplines, Destin offers a very holistic approach. I’ve experienced growth in finding my purpose, subtle energy movement, sexual connection, Tantra practice, cultivating and deepening presence, enhancing my relationship connection with my wife, deepening my self-confidence, and self-expression.

I also enrolled in the Orgasmic Mastery course. Thanks to this program, I discovered non-ejaculatory orgasms and male multiple orgasms and expanded my sexuality in ways I couldn’t imagine when I signed up for his course. Thank you, Destin – this work has blown open the doors of my life!”

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Thank you for an amazing retreat Destin. And thank you to all the men who so gracefully and authentically showed up, in every moment. Eager to grow, loving, kind, compassionate, helpful, strong, beautiful. Those are the words I would use to describe the men I experienced. I was so blown away at the container that was created during my expereince as a demo. I am highly expressive and they stayed grounded and centered and in love which contributed to my comfortability expressing such a wide range of emotion.

I thank all the men who participated as it was the collaborative desire for growth that brought out the potency of the connection.
And I thank you for answering the call and standing up for truth, authenticity, and deep loving connection.
I appreciate your voice being in the world.
You inspire me.
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A testimonial…

The VIP Full Day Intensive was a truly remarkable adventure of discovery, inner reflection, coaching, pushing limits, feeling my fears and being in my power. Destin is fully committed to coaching me in my journey of understanding and achieving my desires and passions. This day together was a perfect opportunity for delving even deeper into the myriad of complexities known and unknown which are essential parts of the big picture of my life.

Destin teaches from his experience of having “been there” himself, from the wealth of training he has taken and from his life lessons of boldly expressing his own passions. He is open, real and honest in expressing both his truth and reflecting what he sees in me. He effectively blends compassionate listening with a call for action

The lessons learned will unfold with time as I continue to process the experience, internalize the deeper understandings developed, make changes to my life and address the fears identified. I look forward to implementing a bolder plan for my future and realizing my visions, with this VIP Full Day Intensive as an exceptional and transformative part of the journey.

I’ve enjoyed the journey as well, in part due to a perception that we are both similar in so many ways and yet with very different experiences of expressing ourselves in the world. This is a great example of how I could show up differently in the world.

I am honored to call you my brother, something I have rarely felt with others.

Namaste,

Art

Small Quotes :

“I felt I made quantum leaps in my awareness, control and not least, enjoyment! I felt the material was/is/will continue to be valuable. I can already tell that as time passes, I will only deepen my appreciation and experience.”
– R.S.

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“The length of the course (at first intimidating) was perfect. It allowed me time to breathe, speed forward at my own pace and pull back when I didn’t have the time. I never felt as though I was ever off course.”
– J.M.

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“Thank you SO much for investing your time and energy with me. Our time together was priceless. There was so much good stuff that I have to go back and review everything once again, on my own time. I am proud to call you my teacher!”
– J.S.

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“Thank you Destin. I have reached new levels of communication, and pleasure like I’ve never EVER experienced in my life. It has been one of those life changing sorts of things. I want to TREMENDOUSLY thank you and given the opportunity to talk about you and send referrals, consider it done!”
-G.S.

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“I had a revelatory moment yesterday when you stood in the role of my sexuality and it occurred to me how beautiful it is, which I’d never realized before.”
-M.G.

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“This course has been powerful for me in regards to clearing out personal cobwebs around my sexuality. It’s helped me really see what is there when I focus in on it and the regular practice keeps me really on it rather then being able to check out or avoid it. Thanks Destin!”
-J.K.

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“This is a FANTASTIC course!! I so encourage everyone to do it now. Worth every cent! It has expanded my love life in so many ways; far, far beyond my expectations. Thank you Destin!! And as for results: my sweetie is LOVING it, and I am feeling my love life just light up and EXPLODE in so many great ways. One of the more empowering courses I have taken, and we are only 1/3rd of the way done!”

I’ve always considered myself to be an ‘advanced’ lover and have even explored Taoist sexual practices and energetics for years already. Even having explored these realms before I’m getting so much out of this course! I am so enjoying the exploration- it’s fun, entertaining and empowering; and since I started there ABSOLUTELY has been an enhancement and upgrade in my life! From A+ to A+++. . . :)”
-T.G.

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“I just wanted to say THANKS! You’re inspiring me to become both a better lover and seducer, and you have inspired me to seek out a job and lifestyle I couldn’t dream of a few years back – my wife and I aim to start our own company and work together, holding courses, seminars etc, for men and women who want to have a more passionate sex life.”
– M.D.

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“I can put some of the experience into words now, after relishing the sensations and feelings without putting words to them for awhile. Immediately after and continuing until now, I have had a strong sense of well-being. By this, I mean not euphoria or giddiness, but just a sense of equilibrium and homeostasis. Calm. I think it comes from a combination of being taken care of and accepted without judgment. The latter is important. Throughout the experience I felt as though you just accepted me, physically, emotionally, mentally, without judgment, and that is what I think has created this sense of well-being. I accept myself for better or worse, but others always have their own expectations of me and project them onto me. You didn’t.”
-H.N.

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“Thanks for a fantastic workshop guys. We were so lucky to receive detailed practical information on orgasmic mastery in an intimate setting from sex educators like you who are at the very top of the field. And it’s so inspiring to spend a day with people who are so completely comfortable with their sexuality. Jaiya, thanks for opening your home. Best to your family.”
– P.L.

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“As a long time student of qi gong (Mantak Chia’s major teaching paradigm), and I can tell ya right now from doing Destin’s course; that yes there are some common parts; and so much more that Destin has very cleverly and painstakingly put together. It’s like math, everyone uses the same #’s, but HOW they are used can be so completely different. I would encourage checking his course out, it’s a pretty incredible experience if your willing to honestly work with yourself.”

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“I wanted to honour you as a healer and your unique expression of your path.. what you are offering, and the way you are offering it, is very powerful… The Kali energy that came in for me during your presentation feels really strong and the way you teach the breathing really spoke to me.. the guided orgasmic breath was awesome and I started experiencing whole body orgasms… so THANKS for THAT!!!! I also want to honour you as a man of integrity, passion and truth… I feel blessed our paths crossed and that I got to really experience your essence…”
– J.N.

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“The qualities that drew me to working with Destin were his unique combination of raw sexuality, charisma, creativity, passion, safety and spirituality. It is rare from my experience to meet a man who embodies both raw sexuality and high integrity (although I am sure it exists). Destin gave me the safe space I needed to explore places in my sexual history where I had been abused repeatedly and also places where I had relinquished my power. He helped me reframe those wounds and reconnect them to a positive and powerful new experience. Afterwards I felt more alive, more connected to my own body and safer in my own skin. He is a beautiful embodiment of the divine masculine.”
– J.Y.

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“I’ve seen him teach this course several times, most recently to hundreds of people at Burning Man, and it is amazing. 2 hours with him can teach you breathing skills that will completely transform your sex life. It is also a very good, safe introduction to “tantra” for people who are curious but nervous, as no partner is necessary and you stay completely in your own space the entire time, not interacting with others. Destin is a master at creating safe space for learning, where all boundaries are respected.”

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“You have many gifts, not just one – your boldness, courage, flow, strength, compassion, patience, humor, intuition, love, wisdom, devotion – all the comes together to make you into DESTIN.”
– M.J.

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“Hi Destin, I just wanted to thank you for all of the work you do! My lover enrolled in your course, and our sexy life has improved so much. Thank you!”
– M.G.

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“Just wanted to tell you I’m impressed with the material, the organization of the site, and your demeanor in trying to make everything right, as well as your manner of teaching. Makes a subject that I think is a bit difficult to discuss among guys much easier to share information on.”
– J.C.

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“When I finally let go it was extremely intense… there was whole body shakes on both our ends… Just knowing i was in control the whole time and was able to redirect my energy flows. I made that session about pleasing her and she was very very happy with the results. I just wanted to share how happy it made me and i have you to thank for showing me the way.”
– M.K.

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“You have quite a way with words. As soon as you said those words, I felt like a huge weight lifted off of me, as I immediately felt, I can do that. The experience truly was a pleasure for me, as well. Both enjoyable and inspirational. I believe that it will be the kick in the butt that I’ve needed.”
– J.R.

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“I went to sleep last night with our session processing in my soul. And I woke up this morning with our session still in the front of my consciousness. You touched a place in me last night that was sweet, and beautiful, and healing for me. My experience with you was a gift.”
– N.P.

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“The PC exercises, breathing, self-exploration, and other practices are AWESOME!! I have experienced sensations and communicative arousals that are brand new and growing to this 68-year-old. This has also been a major part of the greatest shared sexual experiences that I’ve ever had with my lady love.”
-M.H.

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“Wow, man! I followed your “erotic self-exploration” advice… You have not idea how good it was.. oh yeah, the best orgasm in my entire life. I did it slowly, very very slowly until I reached the highest ‘plateau’… dude, I was able to stay in that plateau for about five minutes; it was like being in continuous orgasm for five minutes, something I had never felt before… I was shaking and trembling… and finally it came, it was like an explosioin, bum!, I cummed as I never had in my entire life… will never forget it, it was just AMAZING! Thanks man!”
– J.D.

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“Hey man just wanted to say that i thought the conference call was cool and comfortable. I wasn’t quite sure what to expect but came out of it feeling good and positive about whats to come. Anyway thanks man great start. Really looking forward to this experience.”
– D.T.

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“I appreciate the combination of coaching, breath work, and other exercises. Especially, I feel like you create a safe space where I can talk about difficult issues without any judgment, and let myself be vulnerable — or work towards that anyway.”

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“My wife and I have been going through a lot the past couple of months, but I think this course has really brought a change in me, not just sexually, but in feeling my male power emerge lots of growth.”
– K.L.

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One Liners:

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“Feels silly saying it, but your are ruling your path on the planet. Mad props.”
– L.D.

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“I feel you have chosen an incredibly honorable path for yourself, and I truly believe that you’re a gift to humanity. Much love and respect, keep up the good work ; )”
– N.S.

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“18 months after you taught me this material, it’s still changing my life and enhancing my general happiness and contentment, thank you.”
– M.S.

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“Destin is a master at creating safe space for learning, where all boundaries are respected.”

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“You’re a reminder to allow spirit and physical body to merge in ecstatic, erotic, open pleasure. It’s wonderful.”

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“Ecstatic oneness. Yummy!!!!”
– D.

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“You hold such a beautiful light.”
– K.F.

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“Working with Destin has changed my sexual self, which in turn has done wondrous transformations in my life. Many thanks to Destin.”
-E.P.

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“You really have a talent and passion for bringing the best out in people.”
– A.N.

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“Kool. I think you are amazing. You walk your talk and I admire this. ”

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“Destin is a thoroughly empowering erotic coach; he helped me connect and stay connected to my intention, my power, and my ability to feel like an erotic rockstar.”
– S.Z.

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“Ha – it’s not all “woo woo” – I just LOVE how you summed it up, exactly what I was figuring out what to say.”
– M.C.

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“Thank you for being you, just totally awesome to have such a fine male role model to show my partner :)”
– D.W.

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“Thank you, you allowed me to entertain and challenge my innocent me.”
– R.B.

“I stopped trying to peak in orgasm, but rather maintained the conscious feeling of body and energy… I realized that it wasn’t about peaking or coming to that orgasmic end… You played such a huge role… I can’t even put it into words, i really can’t.”
– O.T.

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Letters

“I was really impressed with your ability to guide the group through the breathing experience. Even though I was laying near the door/walkway and was aware that people were moving in and out I was able to focus my attention on your voice and my breath and I really got into it. I’ve done breath work with yoga and during sex but never isolated it with such intention like that. Before the event I was totally doubting that I would be able to have a “breathgasm” but I definitely felt the blissful high energy from the group and from you and as soon as I let go of my expectations and just allowed the experience to take place I reached an orgasmic state! It was really powerful and made me want to explore breath work more. I would totally love to come and have a session with you soon and to come to another group event – just maybe one where there was less motion in the room since I did get pulled out of it a few times with the door slamming.”
-T.S.

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“This is my testimonial to the AMAZING Erotic Rock Star that is Destin Gerek. I had my first encounter with Destin at the Celebrating Your Erotic Self workshop at Burning Man in 2008. As usual I had no definite plans to be there, but as it turns out I was suppose to be there. There are two things that I carry with me from that experience. First is the potency of the breath work that Destin guided. His ability to produce a strong yet safe experience was so sexually empowering. Destin’s high energy and fear breaking tactics lead me to a place where I felt free to erotically express myself to a point where I felt extremely sexually charged. I also became interested in exploring the potential transformations that could occur from the expression of this innocent energy. But more special to me was Destin’s guided meditation. In this meditation I met an incredibly strong and gentle side of my sexual self. This person, this WOMAN who I met on Destin’s guided visualization now reminds me time and time again that sexual energy is safe, important, and something I deserve. Having met this spirit guide has made me feel the desire to be more sexually active, and to be active with that sense of security and respect. Working with Destin has changed my sexual self, which in turn has done wondrous transformations in my life. Many thanks to Destin.”
-E.P.

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“Some truly amazing and wonderful things have been happening in my life. I feel like this course is interrelated with other aspects of my life. Where I was frustrated and discouraged 2 or 3 weeks ago, I now feel more empowered than ever.

I had a chain reaction of epiphanies that has changed my life in a very positive way, though I feel they would take too long to explain in detail. Mostly I have just matured immensely in several aspects. I have lost a lot of my frustration and I feel much happier on a permanent basis. All of my hard work is really starting to pay off huge.

You are right, I realize that re-patterning takes a lot of time and I can feel myself changing steadily.

Looking back I can see all of the massive progress I have made in just one month. I feel that I am already a changed man. I also feel that this will escalate exponentially. I am excited to see where this will take me.

I am so grateful for the opportunity to make this all happen.

Take care”
– P.D.

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“I would like you to know that what I experienced Saturday night and Sunday while in your presence, our alchemical dance, was one of the most profound and most beautiful experiences I have had so far on this journey of transformation.

The feeling of safety, being able to let go, and ride the wave of bliss that Shakti ma brings, letting her ripple through me leaving me ecstatic after every breath- while being held and balanced by the physical presence of the masculine energy- by source. Opening to receive, one of the biggest challenges we face as humanity. Opening to receive the bliss that is. Opening to being witnessed while I began to open to the feeling of my true full power.

Thank You for being a witness to my dance of transformation as I begin to fully embody my shakti essence. Your presence was a beautiful reflection of my divinity. I saw you and immediately I dissolved into liquid, feeling what I saw, pure sensual divinity enveloped by confidence, love, and grace.

Warm, Juicy, Ecstatic ripples, just by being in your presence.”
– F.D.

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“I am getting ever so close to that “holy grail” of multiple orgasms. The Orgasmic Mastery course is working in amazing ways. I’m doing the practices and experiencing new levels of sexuality. I’m channeling my sexual energy, I’m feeling FAR more open with my sexuality and I’m really allowing myself to feel the sensations and excitement and be in the moment in ways I never have before. My connection with my wife, with the experience, with my energy and with my sexual desire is growing phenomenally. And the amazing thing is this is just the tip of the iceberg. As I’ve worked on presence and energy flow, my wife has felt the difference and felt more connection in the experience. I’ve felt more of my animal desire. I’ve felt more grounded and confident around sex because I can access an intense level of pleasure, satisfaction and bliss on my own, so the NEED for sex is diminished, leaving more room for desire and enjoyment. I’m actually paying attention to what I want, to actually enjoying the moment in myself, instead of solely focusing on the goal of her pleasure. There’s more space for me, and this creates more pleasure for her. I’m actually being instead of doing, it’s really transformed my sex life in amazing ways. So today I could hold back ejaculating at an 8.5 on the arousal staircase. When I tried it again at a 9.5, I couldn’t hold it back completely, but quite a lot. As I get more experience with channeling that energy, it WILL happen. The kegels are making my PC muscles very strong and I can feel the energy flowing, so it’s really close to happening. And the really awesome part is, for the first time, I can really FEEL that this is going to happen, that this isn’t some woo-woo thing, some NLP bullshit, but a real way of being. And there is a lot more I can do with this as I continue to grow in this practice. With just what I have gained to this point, my confidence, presence and energy has grown incredibly. I can only imagine what it will be like when I’ve gotten to the “next level” of male multiple orgasms. It has ripple effects in other aspects of my life and my self-discovery.”

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“Hi Destin,
I really, really, really want to go to your workshop. You are a very charismatic, sexy and charming man who no doubt attracts a lot of attention and enthusiasm. What intrigues me most about you–and I fully admit I don’t know you, this is a hunch–is that the primal sexuality you exude is so beautifully balanced by this grounded safety I find so appealing. You haven’t reached your success pinnacle yet. You are going to seriously blow the world away with your gift. You’re just a little ahead of your time. ;^)
-J.P.

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“Hi Destin,
Thank you for week 6 exercises. The recapitulation/synthesis of the first 5 weeks, combined with pelvic massage and squats, helps me a lot on my way to full body orgasms. I can say that I had some almost full body orgasms since week 5 thanks to the voice aspect. I’m listening to each week’s teleclass, and I learn a lot from hearing other men talk so simply about such intimate sensations. (Since english is not my first language, I can say that I don’t feel as fluent as I would like talking about nuances of sensations, etc… But I keep on reading, listening, writing almost regularly, and most of all, practicing.)

You are helping men (people) to deepen their way to pleasure and happiness, by themselves and with their loved ones… It is precious and I feel grateful to you and the people from which you learned !

And, of course, I look forward to receiving the link to week 7 exercises, for which I thank you again,”

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“Hello Destin,
Thanks for sending me week 5 exercises. The sounding/voicing is adding a “quantum leap” to my self-explorations. And I look forward to sharing with a partner… The course is very well sequenced in my experience. Thanks for this “vocation” of yours.

And now, would you please send me the link to week 6 exercices.
Thank you again,”
– J.L.

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“After listening in on the conference call the other night, in which Destin described his 12 week program, I was impressed with his breadth of knowledge and insight into the practice, as well as his kindness and sincerity, and decided I want to support him in offering the gift. Destin has devoted nearly half his life to the study of sexuality and educating people about their own. His perspective is rich and founded in his own experience. The course is thoughtfully laid out and gives you plenty of time to practice, absorb the lessons and get feedback about your practice each week. Listening to him speak, you can feel that Destin is giving this gift from his heart. What is the gift?
Having the ability to separate orgasm from ejaculation is the gift that keeps on giving. I am hesitant to go into too much explicit detail here, but suffice it to say that men are capable of so much more sexual ecstasy and fulfillment than they allow themselves and their partners. Sure, it takes a little practice and understanding, but it is fun (!) and you will get to know so much more about yourself on all levels. Sex is a fundamental aspect of your being. Master it. Mastery in this area will improve all areas of your life, starting with your self-confidence. Be the best lover you can be. Register today.
Peace, y’all.
En-joy.” – A.B.

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“Hello Destin,
I am on a business trip in Texas, so I will not be able to join you and the rest of the men Tuesday. A quick update: the PC excecises, breathing and self exploration are AWESOME!! I have experienced sensations and communicative arousals that are brand new and growing to this 68 year old, and this has also been a major part of the greatest shared love making with my lady love. Please pass on my best to the guys, and that M.V. says this is the real deal of becoming real men.
Namaste,”
– M.V.

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“Hey Destin,

Just wanted to tell you I’m impressed with the material, the organization of the site, and your demeanor in trying to make everything right, as well as your manner of teaching. Makes a subject that I think is a bit difficult to discuss among guys much easier to share information on.

Looking forward to posting in the forums, been really busy at work so haven’t had the opportunity. But didn’t want to let the moment pass to express appreciation.”
-P.K.

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“Hey Destin,
Wow, man! I followed your “erotic self-exploration” advice… You have not idea how good it was.. oh yeah, the best orgasm in my entire life. I did it slowly, very very slowly until I reached the highest ‘plateau’… dude, I was able to stay in that plateau for about five minutes; it was like being in continuous orgasm for five minutes, something I had never felt before… I was shaking and trembling… and finally it came, it was like an explosioin, bum!, I cummed as I never had in my entire life… will never forget it, it was just AMAZING! Thanks man!

Oh, and I got a chance to really explore the staircase/breathing/edge play with a partner this week. A quote from us both:”Fucking Incredible!” ~ nice work so far :)”
– A.S.

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“I was uncertain what to expect or what I would feel when I first signed up to do coaching with you. It has proven to be an amazing experience and I’m only beginning to realize how powerful an effect it will have on my life. It’s been two months since we started, I already feel more grounded in my sexual exploration. It feels like my body and mind are on a journey together to discover my sexuality and desires, rather than feeling my sexuality as totally dissociated from the rest of who I am. I am more at peace with my body, more comfortable looking at myself, more curious about moving and touching my body, expressing myself in a more physical way, being aware of my body rather than living life as a spirit or head dragging along a body.”
-D.T.

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“Destin, you ROCK and you are an authentic Erotic Rock Star! Can’t imagine you doing anything else in this lifetime. I had the pleasure of listening in on several of your workshops while working the door at Burning Man last year, and can say with full confidence YOU ARE AMAZING. (Plus watching all the smiley faces exit was a great indicator…you have many many happy customers.) Also, when I did get to attend a workshop I saw your brilliance come to life for myself, as you were “tuned in, tapped in, turned on” to what you were teaching, saying and doing. I see you doing workshops, traveling due to the high demand for your skills and making lots of lives brighter with your unique gift. You optimize what Burning Man is all about in my eyes…being you..sharing who you are…and what you love/enjoy to do! much love,”
-A.N.

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“Thanks – you made me feel young and sexy. Of course you made everyone feel sexy – it just exudes from you . All that energy of yours just spills out all over the rest of us ! It was always uplifting to be around you – not always an easy feeling to keep going on the playa – THANKS so much !”
-L.A.

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“Your presence, your energy, your clear empathic ability, all created a dynamic place for me to unfold.”
S.D.

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“Destin, THANK YOU for our class last night! WoW!!!!!! Pacha Mama shook — actually!
You are a rock star and EVERYTHING else! I’m HONORED beyond words and expression that we are connected in this amazing fabric of creativity and ecstatic community with each other! And it is inspiring to see your transformations since we first met a year or so ago! My rock star transformations are underway and it will be wondrous to share them with you! I know they have to do with being a fully-integrated gender pixie super star inspring integration and harmony in creative, playful, life giving ways for all areas of life!
I consider you a co-collaborator and playmate on the path!

LOVELOVELOVE & YES!YES!YES!

In Lak’ech,”
– C.R.

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“Thanks, Destin. We very much enjoyed last night and look forward to incorporating into our erotic lives.
We are also looking forward to next week’s workshop.
Thanks, again! Be well,”
– C.P. and M.P.

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“Hey Destin,
Thanks for getting my erotic life jump started again. Our work together has truly paid off. The biggest change has been in the bedroom both with myself and now with the addition of a playmate. And the cherry on top…. I’m attracting fascinating men left and right, they just show up wherever I am, at Starbucks, while eating at a restaurant, and just waiting in line at a store. So grateful for working with you,”
– A.N.

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“You’ve put so much trust and faith in me, or at least you’ve had to, You gently started helping me figure out the whole boundaries thing, and not just in relation to being with people physically, affectionately, intimately. It’s created a whole ripple effect of understandings, realizations, epiphanies, incorporations. I have no idea how much you’re aware of, I really have no clue how much is you-person-intentional and how much is soul-fully intentional. Anytime I’ve said “I want to do that” you’ve gone with it and been really appreciative and supportive and offered guidance without uncomfortable pushing. Maybe it’s because I trust you, I trust that you subtly perceive and are aware of people’s boundaries and needs, that I am able to allow myself to go at my own pace. People’s words pop into my head when I need them and your advice and words are top ones on my repeat queue. Your voice feels pretty in my body. I don’t feel sick when I hear it. It’s gentle, easy, non-invasive, playful, calming, loving. you helped me overcome so many social anxieties, you allow me or open me up and yourself to my pace and that creates this comfort and ease and simplicity. you’re incredibly beautiful and healing and helpful and trusting and trustable and understanding and intuitive and gentle. Thank you.”
P.H.

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“Thank you as well for guiding me to find a more fuller love and trust with people as a whole, with men, with women, and most importantly, with myself. Thank you for being a powerful, playful, passionate, intensely committed, spirit-filled healer, touching my life so completely and others’ lives. You’re full of miraculous potential and I know you see it and feel it and circulate it every way you can at every moment. I am forever grateful, and the universe around me, as I perceive it, is forever grateful too. All of the people who appreciate me, appreciate you. That’s an incredible piece of a beautiful spiderweb.”

“To go from touching myself as a child, with twisted ideas of what pleasure consisted of, to barely giving my body love through touch later on, your body work and friendship fills my mind, body, and spirit with classical tribal/folk drumming and baroque orchestra music – that relaxing liveliness of pure bliss inside emitting outside. It’s funny, I think I just realized how much I needed both together because I only had more twisted fantasies of pleasure as a kid. This morning, I created a bed of roses from me to me and got undressed out of flowing white gown in front of my beautiful slightly decorated mirror while rubbing my body, all over, everywhere with MSM coconut rose lotion and lavender body oil. The words I vibrated through my body with whatever voice I chose were sweet and loving, to make it more visualizingly meaningful and real, phrases and words people have actually written and said to me. I realized I’ve seriously been neglecting some parts of my body for years and years and years and they let me know. And that although it’s super nice to be in your presence, I learn from you and share with myself a decadent massage, transferring energy from place to place on my body, circulating it all over.”

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“Hey man,
I really appreciate working with you. You’re a good guy and a great coach. You’ve really helped me in the confidence department. I’ve been needing this for a long, long time.

Thanks again, man!”
-J.S

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“I’d like to recommend you enroll in Destin Gerek’s new Orgasmic Mastery Course for Men if you desire to learn how to have both non-ejaculatory orgasms and *multiple* non-ejaculatory orgasms.

Up until a few months ago, I was like most men my age… I was only capable of having one orgasm per night, which coincided with ejaculation. This would almost always lead to me falling asleep.

For most of my sexual life, I felt jealous of many of my female partners who were able to have 3, 4, 5, 6, and in some cases, as many orgasms as they wanted, without getting tired or losing their libido.

I often wondered to myself: what is wrong with me? What’s wrong with men? Why do women get to have unlimited orgasmic fun, while us men come once and that’s it?

Are we sexually inferior to women? Why is sex an experience of abundance for women, and scarcity for men?

I read the book The Multi-Orgasmic Man, which explained how men could indeed experience abundant orgasms by learning the difference between ejaculation and orgasm. Although this made sense intellectually, I was never able to translate the wisdom and knowledge from its pages into a lived experience.

A few months ago, Destin Gerek offered to coach me in learning how to separate ejaculation from orgasm and master the art of the non-ejaculatory orgasm.

It took about 6 weeks for me to cross the threshold and experience my first non-ejaculatory orgasm–in fact, that first night, I had *five* non-ejaculatory orgasms.

That was perhaps the most sexually ecstatic experience of my life. Since then, I’ve had a regular experience of multiple orgasms, which has made sex indescribably more fulfilling.

Learning this technique from Destin has been transformative, both sexually and spiritually. It’s shifted my entire worldview, and has opened doors to sexual pleasure, potency, and healing that I never have known before.

Destin is an excellent teacher, and he’s very good at explaining all of this in accessible, layperson terms. He really knows what he’s talking about, and he has a great sense of how to meet men where they’re at.” – M.T.

I am getting ever so close to that “holy grail” of multiple orgasms. The Orgasmic Mastery course is working in amazing ways. I’m doing the practices and experiencing new levels of sexuality. I’m channeling my sexual energy, I’m feeling FAR more open with my sexuality and I’m really allowing myself to feel the sensations and excitement and be in the moment in ways I never have before. My connection with my wife, with the experience, with my energy and with my sexual desire is growing phenomenally. And the amazing thing is this is just the tip of the iceberg. As I’ve worked on presence and energy flow, my wife has felt the difference and felt more connection in the experience. I’ve felt more of my animal desire. I’ve felt more grounded and confident around sex because I can access an intense level of pleasure, satisfaction and bliss on my own, so the NEED for sex is diminished, leaving more room for desire and enjoyment. I’m actually paying attention to what I want, to actually enjoying the moment in myself, instead of solely focusing on the goal of her pleasure. There’s more space for me, and this creates more pleasure for her. I’m actually being instead of doing, it’s really transformed my sex life in amazing ways.

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18 months after you taught me this material, it’s still changing my life and enhancing my general happiness and contentment, thank you. Cheers,
-J.V.

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Hey Destin,
Thanks for the inspiring quote. Some truly amazing and wonderful things have been happening in my life. I feel like this course is interrelated with other aspects of my life. Where I was frustrated and discouraged 2 or 3 weeks ago, I now feel more empowered than ever.

I had a chain reaction of epiphanies that has changed my life in a very positive way, though I feel they would take too long to explain in detail. Mostly I have just matured immensely in several aspects. I have lost a lot of my frustration and I feel much happier on a permanent basis. All of my hard work is really starting to pay off huge.

You are right, I realize that re-patterning takes a lot of time and I can feel myself changing steadily.

Looking back I can see all of the massive progress I have made in just one month. I feel that I am already a changed man. I also feel that this will escalate exponentially. I am excited to see where this will take me.

I am so grateful for the opportunity to make this all happen. 🙂

Take care,
-K.W.

We haven’t met in person, but I’ve seen you speak in videos and I admire your work and your teachings. I wanted to take a moment to reach out and say thank you for taking the time to discover and understand yourself enough to help others do the same. Simply put, thank you for being you.

Thank you Destin Gerek – your support has made me a better man; more powerful, more grounded, more connected to my truth. -Andrew H.

Kevin B: Thank you, Destin. I periodically wonder who and where I’d be were it not for your coaching and laser sharp reflections almost three years ago in Berlin. To finally uncover and FEEL what my passion and purpose is was a gift like no other. Mad respect and gratitude for you, my friend.

“My partner and I had an amazing connection last night. We opened up talked and I finally felt free to share my needs, dreams and desires without fear and shame in my way. Thank you for helping me to have less fear and more love”

“I appreciate you for helping me to reclaim my manhood. This was probably the most significant achievement of my adult life and I’m very happy. My career is taking off now, and so many other things are blossoming because I now have a vibrant, healthy, complete sexual life.“

“I wanted to thank you so much for our session on Wednesday. I feel much different since then. There is no longer a negative neediness associated with my fantasy. I don’t hunger after it. It feels very good inside of me. I feel a greater resting and relaxing in my sexual nature and I feel more power in it.”

“My relationship with sex is different, it’s not an identity issue – the ego attachment has been replaced with a calm inner knowing of my sexual value. And this has transformed sex into something relaxing, pleasurable, powerful and fun, without the anxiety, fear, resentment or anger from ego attachment. Lasting as long as I want, experiencing multiple orgasms, expanding her orgasms, communicating honestly, trying new things and having wonderful, powerful, uplifting experiences is “normal” now. And at the same time, I feel a deep inner knowing that this is the beginning of my path of a lifetime of growth.”

“Of all the events I have been to, (and there have been a lot), the one I went to that you lead has had the greatest long term effect on my life. Thank you”

I am deeply grateful to my coach Destin – and I am also deeply grateful to your work as well because it all lead to one of the most powerful and profound and moving, transformative experiences of my entire life

Your work is the liberation and reuniting of heart, sexiness and spirit, which is freedom from mental slavery. (Which would make you an abolitionist of mental slavery.)

You Destin, have helped me tremendously in this area of erotic embodiment and erotic self-image. You’ve given me courage to create sexual archetypes that I can tap into.

i surprised myself today, raising my hand to a question

“who in this class think you are beautiful?”

i surely got that from you.

and i respect you in a sense you claim All of you, You.

and you embody them fully, making you such a powerful man.

i needed that permission, to express my beauty freely without hesitation.

i needed that appreciation for myself…. you helped me see them all.

—Elie

We are so open to learn how to love each other better and be better lovers partners and friends. —Crystal M

Bottom line: I have achieved probably 80% orgasmic mastery and it’s given me something I thought I would never have in life: the ability to actually enjoy sex.

I CAN NOW HAVE FULL, POWERFUL, GREAT SEX WITH NO HELPERS OR ‘TECHNIQUES’ AT ALL. Just natural sex. And I can last for a good 10 -15 minutes, up to an hour. As long as I want. Sometimes I cum. Sometimes I don’t , and I save it. It’s up to me.

I’ve always had full body orgasms, and I can channel the energy so that instead of always seeking an orgasm, I can have a steady, nice ‘buzz’ that can last for hours after sex.

I appreciate you for helping me to reclaim my manhood. This was probably the most significant achievement of my adult life and I’m very happy. My career is taking off now, and so many other things are blossoming because I now have a vibrant, healthy, complete sexual life.

—Tol V

Sexually, it’s night and day different. I have three women in my life now whom I’m sexual with, two in the flesh one by phone. And in each case the experience has become radically different. My relationship with sex is different, it’s not an identity issue – the ego attachment has been replaced with a calm inner knowing of my sexual value. And this has transformed sex into something relaxing, pleasurable, powerful and fun, without the anxiety, fear, resentment or anger from ego attachment. Lasting as long as I want, experiencing multiple orgasms, expanding her orgasms, communicating honestly, trying new things and having wonderful, powerful, uplifting experiences is “normal” now. And at the same time, I feel a deep inner knowing that this is the beginning of my path of a lifetime of growth.

And there’s no pressure, no rush, no need to get there all at once. I can take my time, have fun, always learning, always growing sexually. Where I’m at now is great, and where I’m heading is phenomenal. And instead of wanting more than anything to BE “that guy” who is a complete master at sex, I’m actually looking forward now to the journey of BECOMING “that guy,” while knowing that the guy I am now, for the women in my life, IS “that guy,” and it’s really not that big of a deal.

After everything was done and it was just me in the darkness, I was finally able to find some stillness, meditate and feel into this new energy. It was a feeling of openness, of freedom, the feeling of presence, personal power, purpose and the energy of divine connection and endless potential. It felt like home, but an entirely new home, or perhaps a home I’d once lived in but had wandered away from many years ago. And in the stillness, I heard a voice inside saying “It’s all mine.”

Unbelievable!

The CFO just walked in and handed me and “extra bonus” check for $7,500. The universe just paid for your coaching and, in so doing, finally put my annual income into six figures.

It wasn’t merely a coincidence. Blessings keep flowing.

Use your coaching powers wisely, my brother. You’re more powerful than you realize.

In gratitude,

Rhett

As far as relationship with women, my intention now is not numbers, nor “that special one,” but a true connection with the divine feminine, that place of knowing where I’m communicating my sexuality and my truth in every moment to every woman I want to, and welcoming attraction as it shows up in the world around me. It’s a place of connection, with no disconnection, no barriers.