Gift of Puja2018-05-04T03:16:19+00:00

The Gift of Puja


A puja is a gift or an offering, in the east, it’s an offering to the divine, through dieties. The way I have come to appreciate puja, is it’s an experience that invites us all to take a look at the divinity in each of us.

There came a moment during my first experience at an adorational puja, after I had been receiving for 40 minutes, that everything shifted inside of me; all the old beliefs that I would never be good enough, could never measure up melted away in the most joyous sobs I have ever felt move through me. For the first time in my life, instead of having to prove my right to exist, I felt in every cell of my body, that I WAS worthy, just because I existed.

From that point on, one of my greatest passions/missions in life is for everyone to get to experience that moment, and this Puja video offers just that opportunity.
Destin, is one of the most dedicated devotional facilitators, and it’s a pleasure and honor to get to cocreate with him on this piece.


Practice puja as a couple and find yourself tapping into some of your deepest experiences of connection and intimacy (oh, and likely have phenomenal sex afterwards, too!).

Practice puja in a group, and discover the power of opening your heart and pouring love into whatever human being is before you, even if they are a total stranger, and for no reason at all. You may not know their name. You may never see them again. And they may never do anything for you in return. You have the opportunity to practice giving for the sake of giving. Loving for the sake of loving. Love after all, is a practice. And one most of us could use more practice in.


Destin Gerek, a dynamic sexual/spiritual empowerment coach, is a man living his life as art. Destin has gracefully carved out an enduring position for himself as a world respected figure in neo-Tantra and sexuality education. As a sought-after sexuality and transformational life coach, speaker, blogger, and educator on all aspects of sex, sacred sexuality, Tantra, and erotic empowerment, Destin Gerek is challenging traditional societal beliefs and helping people create powerful change in their lives in the process.

A recognized authority in the areas of sexuality, personal transformation, and spirituality Destin is a California State Certified Sexologist through the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, and protégé of world-renowned sexologist Joseph Kramer. A graduate from New York University with a BA, Major in Sociology, Minor in Psychology, and a concentration in Human Sexuality, Destin is also a trained Certified Sex Educator through San Francisco Sex Information. Having participated in hundreds of hours of continuing education, thousands more in research and development, Destin’s depth of experience and educational background is extensive and unique. Read Destin’s Full Bio

Monique Darling, Author of ‘Beyond Cuddle Party’ workshop facilitator extraordinaire has led over 1,000 workshops in the past 5 years. She is the founder of Juicy Enlightenment an organization dedicated to empowering people who are questioning the assumptions of how their life should be and to offering tools for self expression that create trust, inner knowing and wisdom to enjoy the life they have. Monique has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts and magazines across the USA. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment and fearless relating.She guides from a place of understanding and her natural exuberance is infectious! She is available for private sessions, experiential workshops and Cuddle Parties.
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