So often men focus on what works. We have the tendency towards the practical. In bed, however, it can benefit you to allow yourself to expand your range. Rather than a problem to be solved, consider a woman’s body to be a blank canvas spread out in front of you. Become a sex artist, painting with ALL of the tools you have at your disposal.
If you’ve never touched her like THAT, try it (if she protests, of course, stop).
Maybe you’ve never tried food play? Break out the whipped cream.
Hot/cold play? Get an ice cube and a mug of hot tea.
Really, to the open-minded sex artist, the world (and her body) is your oyster…